You may be suddenly single or even with someone new, but you can't stop thinking about your ex girlfriend. Questions like, can I get my girlfriend back and get her to love me again keeps going through your mind. You may feel like you have to stop thinking about her because you don't feel like you have a chance to win her back. The good news, is it may not be as impossible as it seems, and you may have an excellent chance.
There are different reasons that women leave relationships than why men leave them. Men don't always understand why women get out of a relationship since their brains are wired differently.
So before we tackle your goal of getting your girlfriend back, let's take a at why she isn't around in the first place.
Why do women leave relationships? They leave because they either feel unappreciated or they leave because they are bored. What do you commonly hear from unhappy women? “He doesn’t appreciate a thing I do!”
Now, you might think that your ex's reasons for leaving don't fit into one of those categories. You may be thinking "My girlfriend left me because I was never around." But ask yourself, why were you never around? Does she have a reason to feel unappreciated or tired of fending by herself?
Since you are not with your ex all the time now you can use the time to look at things more objectively. Use this time constructively to list all the positive and negative factors in your relationship. In the meantime, make sure you take care of yourself, eat healthy foods and exercise when possible. Make a real effort to go out with friends and stay active.
Then, after you've had time to concentrate on yourself and look at your relationship with more objective eyes, you can think about making that first contact with your ex. Ask her out for coffee in a casual way. If she says yes, go out, talk about light non-threatening subjects and keep it short. Talk about what you have been doing. It will intrigue her to know that you are not sitting home moping, but getting out and having fun. At the end of the date, don't re-schedule another unless your ex suggests it.
The date may go well, the date may go ok or the date may go terribly. If it seems like it bombed, you'll need to re-evaluate your situation and see if you want to continue trying later on or if you need to think about moving on.
But if the date goes well, you may see the light at the end of the tunnel and realize that you may indeed have a good chance at getting your ex girlfriend back.
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